This book is for you if you have ever cried in silence.
For that moment when you thought your strength was gone. For when you know deep down inside that life has more in store for you than just surviving, yet it feels as though life is on pause while you carry scars no one can see. This is your book. A reminder that “too late” does not exist.

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This book is for you if you have ever cried in silence.
For that moment when you thought your strength was gone. For when you know deep down inside that life has more in store for you than just surviving, yet it feels as though life is on pause while you carry scars no one can see. This is your book. A reminder that “too late” does not exist.

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In 5 to 12 is not yet 12, Joyce Kwidama takes you into the transitional space, the silent place no one sees, but where everything changes. These are real stories and raw moments that
have shaped her. The book helps you understand why you got stuck, and how to slowly find your way back to yourself.

It shows you how to:
● regain control of your life, even when chaos feels overwhelming
● stop losing yourself in the needs of others
● stop surviving and create space to breathe again
● feel what your boundaries are and protect them
● return to your true self you lost somewhere along the way
● rebuild trust in your own voice, your intuition, and your power

In 5 to 12 is not yet 12, Joyce Kwidama takes you into the transitional space, the silent place no one sees, but where everything changes. These are real stories and raw moments that
have shaped her. The book helps you understand why you got stuck, and how to slowly find your way back to yourself.

It shows you how to:

  • regain control of your life, even when chaos feels overwhelming
  • stop losing yourself in the needs of others
  • stop surviving and create space to breathe again
  • feel what your boundaries are and protect them
  • return to your true self you lost somewhere along the way
  • rebuild trust in your own voice, your intuition, and your power
Joyce Kwidama

Joyce Kwidama is a teacher, trainer, entrepreneur, and EFT therapist, specialized in EMDR and MDFT, with deep expertise in trauma, healing, and manifestation. For years she worked in the places where life hits the hardest; care institutions, prisons,
youth groups, families in crisis, and victims of the childcare benefits scandal in The Netherlands.
The combination of professional expertise and lived experience gives her words weight.

She does not speak from a distance, but from the very floor where she has once been. And despite all the setbacks she has faced over the years, one message has always stayed with
her: “Five to twelve is not yet twelve.

Joyce Kwidama

Joyce Kwidama is a teacher, trainer, entrepreneur, and EFT therapist, specialized in EMDR and MDFT, with deep expertise in trauma, healing, and manifestation. For years she worked in the places where life hits the hardest; care institutions, prisons, youth groups, families in crisis, and victims of the childcare benefits scandal in The Netherlands. The combination of professional expertise and lived experience gives her words weight.

She does not speak from a distance, but from the very floor where she has once been. And despite all the setbacks she has faced over the years, one message has always stayed with her:
Five to twelve is not yet twelve.